Bury St Edmunds

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We have been in Bury St Edmunds for about ten days and it is an easy place to live. We are house-minding for my Aunt and Uncle who have run away to Alaska while the Olympic games are happening. Bury is dominated by the remains of the Abbey and its magnificent gardens. I have been enjoying walking through them on my way to the town. Hanging baskets filled with flowers line the streets.

We have the Lonely Planet guide for England and this is what it says about the Abbey and gardens: “Most impressive, are the remains of the western front, where the original abbey walls were burrowed into in the 18th century to make way for houses. The houses are still in use and look as if they have been carved out of the stone like caves.” My Aunt lives in one of these houses but it is not a bit like living in a cave.

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Good friends of ours have just moved to Coober Pedy in South Australia and they are living in a cave – they wake up to complete darkness, they don’t have good internet reception, they are underground. In comparison, our abode is light, airy and the sun awakens me at 5.30 am.

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Nearby is Samson Tower – the gates built in the Norman times as an entrance to the Abbey. In front of it is a beautiful statue of St Edmund by Dame Elisabeth Frink (1976). I can gaze out at this statue from our bathroom window and I love it. The rest of the abbey spreads eastward like a ragged skeleton, with various lumps and pillars hinting at its immense size. The Cathedral is next door to us and seems enormous, but it is tiny compared to the size of the old Abbey. Living amongst these ruins is a bit like living in an alien landscape.

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We are not being tourists here. We are both working and we are finally working on our marriage material together. I have been waiting for Keith to read and to think in his way and now he is ready to do things “my way” a little and I plan to buy a giant sketch book so we can brainstorm ideas.

On Friday we went to the Bury Historical Records Office which is next door to do a little bit of research into Puritan families who lived in the area. We found some interesting documents. I was a little worried I would have trouble reading hand writing and figuring out what they were saying – for example f is s but managed quite well.

Our worlds are colliding a little here, as I am doing an online creative writing course and am “attempting” to write a story about Katherine Gell who lived from 1624 to 1671 and Keith has written about her. Certain aspects of her life have sparked an interest – so I am gleaning as much as I can about this period in history – it is an amazing period of time – a Civil War and then Charles 1 lost his head. However, it means we have plenty to talk about and I am not in the least bit bored. Creative writing is hard work and I am having to do some tough self talk.

We have been running four times this week – I managed to figure out how to use the couch to 5k app – am still figuring out the music bit. On one run, it was set on a perpetual loop of the Corr’s “Run-away” which is fun to listen to once, but after that, I was a little over it.

We slept in this morning as we stayed up late to watch the opening ceremony of the Olympics. It was magic – we thoroughly enjoyed the BBC coverage – silent commentatators. We loved the Queen and James Bond, Mr Bean, the Beatles and the introductory film along the Thames with the magnificent music.
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Scaffold of praise

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Sometimes it is hard to utter words of thanks and praise and make a joyful noise unto the Lord. I have been through seasons of bleakness when the words were not there. Somewhat surprisingly, I have even found that when times are good, I still forget what words to use.

I have been reading Psalm 100 most days this year, so I have read it many times. David knew that most of us would have trouble with praise and singing songs of joy, so he provides us with a scaffold – here are the words and thoughts to fill our minds. He is so like the English who are sparing with their use of words and have perfected the art of understatedness.

Verse three contains visual pictures we can imagine to help us and it is jam packed with ideas:

“Know that the Lord is God. It is he who made us, and we are his, we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.”

I’ve spent time thinking about what David is telling his readers here. This is just some of the thoughts I have come up with. I am sure you would have your own ideas to add. This creator is an active participant in our lives. This is not a picture of a distant creator who made us and then abandoned us to our own devices. He didn’t just make us and then leave.

He is also our shepherd. Our shepherd has placed us in a pasture of his making and is there with us – caring, guiding and protecting – these are the qualities of a shepherd and Jesus is our Good Shepherd – the perfect shepherd.

Thinking about what creator, sheep, pasture and “his people” mean have given me a framework of how to be thankful – and what to be thankful for and the words to utter. This is what I can shout for joy to the Lord – along with all the earth in response to what I know to be true. On the really bleak days, all I need do is say these words as they say it all. No further embellishments are required.

The final verse reminds us of God’s character. Do you sometimes forget what God is like? I do – often. Here is a nutshell summary:

“For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.”

Remembering that this is what God is like provides us with a scaffold of words to use. He has demonstrated to each of us His love, goodness and faithfulness in His son Jesus – look to Him and what He has done for us.

It has taken me a while to realise that praise is not about me or my feelings. It has everything to do with God – He is never changing and these truths never falter. They are the same for me today when life is filled to the brim with good stuff, but they were also true in times past when I was in a darker place – here are the words to utter – no more, no less, these are sufficient.

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Slowing time down

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Have you ever been in a period of time that you hoped would never end? I am feeling a bit like this at present – it is well with my soul and I have so much to be thankful for – can’t life just stop right here and I keep re-living this time for a while?

I have figured out how to do this. Start running and use an app that is dodgy. It actually works! Keith has been talking about returning to running for a while now. In his youth he ran often. Back in our courting days, I spent some time in the US and I would receive snail mail from him with detailed descriptions of the runs he had done.

I suspect I took up running to impress him. Or is this what you do when you are in love? However, my first run was done in San Francisco at midnight to welcome in the 1980s. That was a while ago now. Neither of us have run for years – I stopped when I started having children – too tricky. Keith’s knees gave him pain and he reluctantly gave it up too so we took up other forms of exercise.

I downloaded an app onto my ipod touch – actually I found I had two called couch to 5k. This morning we decided to start – me usisng my app and Keith just running.

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We found a circular trail and an oval that looked perfect for us and they are barely five minutes away. Keith set off for the oval, while I turned on my program and obediently followed its instructions for a thirty minute work out – week 1 day 1 of a six week program. I am a fairly compliant person and have no problems (mostly) with obeying instructions. I thought this program would be a gentle way to start moving without killing myself – but it wasn’t. The voice said jog and I jogged and kept on jogging – but it seemed like a very long minute.

I jogged up three hills and then finally onto an oval. Walked and then the voice said “jog” so I did and I kept on and on for 8 minutes. When my program said that I still had fourteen minutes to go, Keith assured me that I had been going for forty-five and was sure I had run 4 km during my workout. I have to confess it was not easy. To keep myself going, I reminded myself I had cycled up hills and could do this too. One minute of jogging seemed to go for a very long time. In fact, I had the sensation that time had slowed right down and was in no hurry to move.

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The question is: will I get up and do it again? I plan to, but will use a different app! I have tested it already and its thirty minutes matches the thirty minutes on the clock.

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Blue and green

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Whoever said that “blue and green should never be seen” is wrong – you only have to look at how God has made His world to see that He has put these colours together and they work.

The sun is shining and the clouds have disappeared – for the moment. It is almost hot and we have retrieved what summer clothes we brought from the depths of our suitcases to wear for the first time since our arrival and I have visited the sales and found good bargains. Summer is here and the outdoor beckons.

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We are staying close to the Abbey gardens and I have enjoyed exploring them. They have been filled with families enjoying a taste of summer. We even had three nights of evening concerts being held – not the sort that I would choose to go to – reminding me of listening the the sounds emanating from St Paul’s when they do anything noisy. The gardens are vast and the ruins amazing. This Abbey dates from 633. In 1214 an early version of the Magna Carta was signed by Cardinal Langton and 25 Barons. King John was compelled to sign this agreement seven months later.

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Keith and I have done a few walks and yesterday afternoon we worked out where we could run tomorrow morning – it certainly sparkles – will see if the early morning sunshine entices me to put those joggers on!

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Gardens and fly through London

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Our final day in Oxford was unusual – warm and sunny and the gardens beckoned. I had been promising myself time in some gardens but the weather has not been conducive.

I spent some time in the Royal Botanic Gardens – the oldest botanic gardens in England and savoured the sweet scents of flowers mixed with freshly cut grass – it was like sitting in honey without the stickiness. It was a little wild and scraggly – particularly after all the rain and the gardeners were out in force with their lawnmowers and clippers.

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I also visited New College and Edmund Hall. You have to pay to enter each of these places, but well worth the money when the sunshines. Unfortunately, after a while they wreacked havoc with my nose.

I will just give you a taste – some of these gardens were past their prime and it has rained and rained but for an Australian used to a browny yellow landscape – the lush green was refreshing.

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On Wednesday we managed to cram all our stuff back into our suitcases, clean the apartment and catch an early bus to London. At Victoria we changed bus to go to Bury St Edmunds. What an exciting dash it was into London and out, we managed to pass Elephant and Castle, cross the Thames twice and drove past the Gherkin – familiar territory. We also got to see the Olympic stadium and the enormous Westfields that have to be walked through to access the stadium – completely over the top and out of place.

This flying visit reminded me about a delightful children’s book I discovered at Blackwells. “Katie in London” by James Mayhew, is about Katie’s visit to London with her brother and grandmother. They begin at Trafalgar Square where the grandmother decides to have a tiny nap. The children go and climb on the lion statue, who becomes real and takes them on a flying visit of London – he talks to them and is quite a character. They even go on the London Eye – the lion quivering with fear as he is terrified of heights. He shows them all the landmarks and returns them safely to the grandmother who then wakes up ready for action. Katie and her brother are now far too tired to move. This is one of a series of books by Mayhew – he has done one of the Impressionist artists and another about Van Gogh. These are the sort of books I would encourage a local library to buy – they are a great way of introducing your child to different places and things with an enjoyable story. I was sorely tempted to buy it, but firmly put it back on the shelf after carrying it around for a while. I kept saying to myself “Sarah remember it has to go into that suitcase!”

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We are now in Bury St Edmunds for our next phase. We will be here for over three weeks.

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A weekend in Broadway

I have an aunt who lives in Quilter’s Cottage at Broadway in the Cotwolds so last weekend, we went to stay with her. In 2008 we had house-minded here for three weeks and fell in love with its charm. We arrived in the early evening of Friday and the sun was shining so we had drinks in the garden before dinner.

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There is a tiny village just outside of Broadway called Snowshill, and it was their annual fete day on the Saturday. For twenty-five years Margaret has made the scones for the teas – 4 dozen, so on Saturday morning she let me help. It brought back memories of organising fetes for Darlington school. My biggest angst each year was the weather. It was not looking promising.

After lunch we set off for the fete and the sun attempted to weakly defeat the rainclouds. Second hand books, tea, cake and scones, freshly picked raspberries and strawberries, green fields and the most adorable tiny cottages – and the usual fete crowds – children, dogs, noise, chaos, we enjoyed them all.

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There is a walk that you can do from near Broadway to Bath called the Cotswold way – can you see my imagination is beginning to spark – how I would love to do this walk – we have just done a tiny bit of it. On Sunday, we braved the weather and set off. It was muddy and damp but most enjoyable. One day perhaps we will do a little bit more?

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A little bit of cycling

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Why did we come to Oxford? It is a beautiful city and it describes itself as a place of learning and culture – it is a great place for those interested in such pursuits. However, this is also the place where my father grew up and I wanted to discover the Oxford he described to me as a little girl living in faraway Sydney.

Dad grew up in a house on Banbury Road and I have walked up and down this road a few times and found the house! He attended the local Dragon School. During his summer breaks as a boy he had to keep a diary for school. We have four volumes of these diaries and they capture the life of an eleven year old boy living in Oxford.

They are dominated by descriptions of walks along the river and his cycling trips out of town. Dad was a keen cyclist and he explored his world by bike and had much freedom to travel miles and miles.

Keith and I promised ourselves a day on wheels, but were waiting for the perfect clear blue sky day to arrive. Last Thursday we awoke to such a day and could not see a single cloud. We hired bikes from up the road, with helmets and set off – firstly skirting around the outskirts of the city to make our way to Woodstock and Blenheim Palace. (We were on the south side of the city and needed to get around to the northern side – and avoid the busy city centre.) The cycle ways are marked by number and we followed the number 51 which took us out of the city but in the direction of Biccester (prounounced bister) so we were slightly off course.

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I am a slow and somewhat inexperienced cycler and after a couple of hours, Keith asked me if I wanted to keep going. I responded “of course I want to keep going!” He then reminded me that we would at some stage have to turn around and retrace our steps. I said “we have only just started riding in the countryside and there is so much to see and I want to see what is around the next corner and Dad might have cycled here!” Keith looked at me and said “Sarah your imagination is always bigger than your body”.

I was not going to turn around yet! We finally came to a small B road with a signpost to Woodstock and left the cycleway 51 to follow this road – it was narrow and windy and took us down a magnificent hill to cross a river but then there was an uphill climb – I was very glad we had decided to spend more money and hire bikes with gears.

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We made it to Woodstock and I have to confess I was feeling sore and tired and in need of food. We found a pub with a courtyard garden and sat in the sun and replenished our hunger and thirst. To be honest, I was happy to sit and not move. But Blenheim Palace beckoned – just around the corner.

We had been told about a back entrance to the Palace” “look for the dark green fence with a door in it, you go through this door and turn left through another door” it was a bit like returning to the world of Alice and Keith was not at all convinced that we should open a gate with a number 98 on it that looked like it was the entrance to a private house.

However, behind this door lay the grounds of Blenheim – palatial! It seemed like we cycled for hours around – it wasn’t, but my body was not used to cycling for hour after hour. We barely passed any people out walking. They were all in the Palace as the car parks were packed with cars and buses and more buses. It is grand and extravagant – it costs a fortune to enter its doors to explore. We decided not to this time. We made our way brazenly out the front gates without paying a penny and set off for home.

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It is a very gentle downhill ride from Woodstock to Oxford and you would only notice if you were on two wheels and very tired, but I made use of gentle coasting and rested my pedal weary legs.

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Those clouds returned with a vengeance – and by the time we reached the outskirts of Oxford it was grey and raining steadily. We cycled along a canal path to Wolverton, found Woodstock Road and then cycled through the suburb of Jericho to reach the centre of town – it seemed like a long way. We made our way along Holywell Street which is where Tolkein lived but at that point, I was beyond caring and out onto High Street and this is one very busy road. I joined double-decker buses and cars and pretended I was a pro and cycled my way across Magdalen Bridge, holding my breath and hoping I would survive.

We reached home intact but I made Keith promise me that he would listen to my body not my imagination, if I ever suggested a day of cycling again. I was in bed and asleep by 8pm. Sleep is such a reviver – on returning our bikes to the shop the next morning, I turned to my beloved and said “When can we go cycling again?”

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Maudlin College

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How I wish they called this College Magdalen College. It is beautiful and deserves a name that does it justice. But who am I to suggest such a thing. This college has been around for some time – founded in 1458 and has been reasonably comfortable with its name. This glorious quadrangle has white hydrangeas planted around its perimeter and they are all in full bloom.

I have been waiting for a lull in the rain to visit this College as it is large and I wanted to explore it properly and do the Addison walk around the island and its private meadow and visit the Fellow’s Garden – all part of the College grounds and inaccessible to the outsider. Keith can get in for free – he only needs to wave his Bodleian library card – whereas I must pay five pounds!

One afternoon last week, the sun came out and I could see more blue sky than clouds, so I filled my thermos with tea and set off. I had a lovely afternoon and alas, it did rain, but I enjoyed my time and managed to drink my cup of tea sitting in the gardens.

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CS Lewis attended this College and Shadowlands was filmed here. But it is a place steeped in history, atmosphere and stories.

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How I longed to climb these stairs to visit one of the libraries with a collection dating back to a gift of manuscript books, presented by the founder in 1481!

Each time I have crossed Magdalen Bridge, I have looked across at the island and longingly wanted to walk its muddy path.

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Finally, I could – this is Addison’s walk and I found a poem written by CS Lewis on a wall.

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It is called “What the bird said early in the year” – the bird was definitely not talking about this year:

“I heard in Adison’s Walk a bird sing clear
This year the summer will come true this year this year

Winds will not strip the blossoms from the apple trees
This year no want of rain destroy the peas

This year times nature will no more defeat you
Nor all the promised moments in their passing cheat you….”

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This is a secluded pond in the Fellow’s garden – you have to walk around the Island on Adison’s walk, and cross a tiny bridge into another garden, along another muddy path and there it is tucked neatly away. I suspect it enjoys much solitude and silence. I was a solitary walker on this afternoon – a mad Aussie.

There are parts of England that have received 300% of their rainfall for the year this July and we are only half way through! Will it stop for the Olympics? Despite the inclemency of the weather, it has not stopped our enjoyment of living in this glorious place. I just hope the students who live and study at Maudlin appreciate its beauties.

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Oxford waterways

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You have to be determined to find Oxford waterways – you can see them, but to walk along them intelligently, that is another thing completely. On our first attempt last weekend, we wandered through the Jericho section of Oxford which is quirky and filled with great cafes and fun shops and came to a bridge crossing a waterway. We had been told this was a great place to explore and indeed it was, but the lure of the waterways was too much for me – I was determined to explore and uncover their secrets. We stumbled over this bridge crossing the canal:

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It was the canal heading towards Banbury, so we set off along the muddy, puddle-filled path in that general direction. It got muddier and muddier. There were brightly painted barges moored along its banks, many had gardens planted on their rooftops, through the windows you could glimpse into their kitchens – brightly coloured kettles, empty coffee mugs, books….

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A canal is really just a long narrow stretch of waterway, lined with trees with a narrow pathway running by its side. You can walk for hours by its side and not meet anyone else mad enough to brave the mud. I kept thinking about the wonderful book I read The Unlikely Voyage of Jack de Crow by AJ MacKinnon – a true story recounting Sandy’s journey from the Severne River near the border with Wales to the Black Sea in a small mirror dinghy. He travels along the canals during his travels. It is entertaining and he describes the waterways vividly.

The next day after attending an encouraging church service at St Ebbe’s and again meeting old friends and new from Oz, we went armed with instructions to find the Thames footpath. It is easy once you know how, but don’t rely on signposts or google maps.

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It was with a sense of accomplishment that we found a track leading to the Thames footpath and found Port Meadow as well. The sun shone, and all was well with us. I did feel a bit like Mole from Wind in the Willows when he first stumbled across the Thames. In fact, his description beats anything I could say:

“He thought his happiness was complete when, as he meandered aimlessly along, suddenly he stood by the edge of a full-fed river. Never in his life had he seen a river before – this sleek, sinuous, full-bodied animal, chasing and chuckling, gripping things with a gurgle and leaving them with a laugh to fling itself on fresh playmates that shook themselves free and were caught and held again. All was a-shake and a-shiver – glints and gleams and sparkles, rustle and swirl, chatter and bubble.
The Mole was bewitched, entranced, fascinated. By the side of the river he trotted as one trots, when very small, by the side of a man who holds one speel bound by exciting stories….”.

We walked through Port Meadow by the river bank and reached Pixie Meadow and a lock, again with no clue as to where we were but we found a bus stop and a bus that took us back into to the city – as the clouds had returned with vengeance. Now I know how to find the waterways, I can explore some more.

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Oxford in an hour

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We have been in Oxford for ten days and I have been a tour guide for three visitors in this time. Last week our niece Chloe and her young man came to Oxford. I saw on facebook that she was in London and found out she was coming to Oxford the next day. We arranged to meet.

It was a flying visit. They did Stonehenge, Windsor Castle and Oxford in one day! Just thinking about it makes me exhausted – but they are young and filled with energy.

Tim and Chloe arrived at 4pm and had exactly one hour. I ran into meet them, setting a new record and met them on Broad Street. It is amazing what you can see when you put your mind to it but they really just got a taste. The sun shone and Oxford glistened. I had to show them Christ Church – the cottage gardens are glorious and the grass is a brilliant green. We did the circuit at a jog, but I got them back to their bus on time – a family had been left at Windsor. They are doing the flying Europe tour mid-semester and are making the most of their time – they are so interested in everything they see.

This week we had another visitor from Australia, this time for the night. We did the walk around the centre of town in the drizzling rain and it was decidedly cold. I walked fast just to keep warm. I feel I am becoming a bit of an expert at showing others the highlights in one hour. But it really is not possible to do justice to Oxford in such a dash.

The night our visitor stayed was the night the Olympic torch came to Oxford. It came up Cowley Road, around the Plain and back out along St Clements Road. It passed literally twenty metres from our apartment. We stood on the street, with the crowds and waved, cheered and enjoyed the atmosphere and the excitement. What a night to choose to visit!

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