Alice’s day

On 4 July 1862 Charles Dodson, an Oxford don, took Alice Liddell and her two sisters on a boating picnic up the River Thames from Folly Bridge in Oxford. To amuse the children he told them a story about a liittle girl, sitting bored by a riverbank, who finds herself tumbling down a rabbit hole into a topsy-turvy world called Wonderland.

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Last Saturday Oxford celebrated the first telling of Alice’s adventures in wonderland. It was wet, in fact it has been mostly wet since our arrival in Oxford, so we decided to abandon any ideas of cycling and join in the celebrations – well some of them.

Charles Dodson had studied at Christ Church College, where Alice’s father was dean, and it was hosting several events. In an attempt to attend them, Keith and I plunged down the rabbit hole and had our own topsy turvy adventure. Our first dilemma was getting into Christ Church. The instructions said “entry at Tom Gate under Tom Tower” but this was not marked on the map and Christ Church College is not small. On one attempt to access the College, we were met by a formidable woman who blocked our entry and pointed back the way we had come and said go right, then right until you come to Tom Lane and you will find the man in a top hat. He will let you in.

Around we turned and trudged back right around to the other side of the college where we had already been – but had not seen any man in a top hat. We did find him and he pointed in the direction we were to go.

Our next instructions to locate the library, was “access via the spiral staircase” – fine if we could find it. Finally, we discovered the doorway to enter and before us stood a giant spiral staircase – so up we went. The exhibition of Alice memorabilia was somewhat underwhelming, but fascinating.

Keith started to read about Alice’s family. He looked at me and said “you never told me that Alice’s father was Henry Liddell!” Rather puzzled, I responded “Henry Liddell was Alice’s father”. “Henry Liddell is the author of the famous Liddell & Scott Greek-English Lexicon!” For a moment, our worlds collided – “I have that lexicon at home!” “Well, I have Alice in Wonderland at home” I responded. “But Henry Liddell is famous!” “I think more people know about Alice than about Henry” was my response.

Keith’s copy of Liddell & Scott’s Lexicograpy – just don’t ask me how or why I have this photograph.

Henry Liddell spent most of his life working on this lexicon – the first edition was published in 1843 and at his death in 1897, the eighth edition was published. He was also incredibly creative and used to doodle during meetings. His friends regretted that he had devoted so much of his life to the drudgery of lexicography. John Ruskin, a former pupil of Liddell’s in 1866 expressed sorrow in a letter to him that “you kept dictionary making instead of drawing trees at Madeira in colour.”

20120711-090929.jpg this is from one of Liddell’s sketchbooks.

On reflection, staying in Oxford is a bit like plunging down that rabbit hole, as all is not quite as it seems. We went looking for a tea room for a cup of tea during a rain storm and found a Taiwanese tea room that sold bubble tea with black pearls. I was right there at the mad hatter’s tea party.

I have been trying to find a proper map of Oxford that shows a little more of the town than just the centre, showing walks around meadows and along the river banks. After three attempts, I have given up and am relying on google maps. This is the interaction I had at one shop:

“Do you have any maps of Oxford that show where I can walk around the meadows and along the rivers?”

“If you go to the tourist shop, you can book into a walking tour of Oxford.”

“Yes, I have seen those advertised. What I am looking for is a map that shows more of the city than this map” – I showed her my only map.

By this time, she looked like she really did not know what to do with me. “Perhaps you could go on the Oxford bus trip that takes you right around Oxford? – you can go to that bus stop over there.”

Later, I realised I had used the wrong words. If I had asked about the Thames footpath, she would have understood. But even finding the Thames footpath is not easy. You will not find signposts – you just need to know it is there. We were told that Port Meadow was a lovely place to walk – but you need to find it first – without any signs!

20120711-090054.jpgWe did find Port Meadow eventually – but that is another story.

Our apartment has no maps or information of any kind to help a newcomer to Oxford – you are just meant to know.

Back to Alice. There is a wonderful museum here in Oxford that I stumbled upon while looking for something else called the Story Museum. It had an amazing display of original illustrations for Alice in Wonderland including Helen Oxenbury and Anthony Browne. I was in heaven here – so many different interpretations of Alice’s teaparty – each unique and wonderful.

Blackwell’s bookshop celebrated Alice’s day with much style. Keith had asked me if he could buy a new novel. We had planned to do all our reading on our ipads – to reduce our weight for travelling – and not travel with paper novels. He confessed “it just doesn’t feel right reading my ipad in bed”. He had finished reading Olive Kitteridge and wanted to find a new book. I need no excuses to visit a book shop, so off we went. It was packed with families avoiding the rain. Children were sitting listening to different authors read Alice, having their faces painted, being entertained with balloon sculptures and live music – chaotic, noisy and fun! Keith headed for the history section – was not sure if he would find a novel there, while I headed for the children’s book section. At this point, our worlds are far apart.

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Two different worlds of Oxford

Depending on who is walking, it takes from ten minutes to twenty minutes to walk from our apartment to the Radcliffe. The Magdalen Bridge crosses the Cherwill River and you come to a giant roundabout called The Plain. We are staying just up from here off the Cowley Road.

Our apartment is a bit like a doll’s house for adults. Compact and cosy. I love it. We have a loft bedroom that you reach by climbing a metal spiral staircase and there are attic windows through which you see the roof tops of our neighbours. When the sun shines, which has been rare, it is filled with glorious sun dappled light.

There is a desk which I have taken over – I figured that seeing that I couldn’t get into the Radcliffe, I could make good use of it. However, I must confess that I have managed to fill most spaces with my stuff – bits of sewing, my clutter – but no books – they are all on my ipad, so this accompanies me everywhere.

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Looking for the best supermarket for shopping, I walked along Cowley Road away from the Centre and felt like I had entered a different world. There are dellies from Morocco, India, Italy, Turkey – fresh herbs, spices and an assortment of edible treasures; numerous cafes, bike shops, op shops – it is a bit like south Newtown. There is a giant Tesco’s a few blocks away where I can buy practically anything we need. I love walking to the shops with a couple of carrier bags and bringing them home filled with what we need for a few days – fresh raspberries are always on the list and I have bought some key spices for dahl – significantly cheaper than buying meat. We are staying on the edge of two completely different worlds that probably never meet.

We had a giant red balloon pass our house this morning. Keith noticed it in the reflection of the table. This afternoon, the Olympic torch is visiting this part of Oxford – it will travel along Cowley Road to the roundabout – some excitement!

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I am enjoying exploring both worlds by foot.

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Oxford

We have been in Oxford for a week now. We have had no trouble with how to fill our days, however, how we fill them is quite different. This is where Keith spends his time:

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The Radclife Camera. One of the most beautiful buildings here in Oxford. It is part of the Bodleian Library and for scholars only. Meaning, you can’t just walk in there like you can the State Library of NSW or the British Library. You have to fill in a form with credentials before they will give you a card. Keith had not trouble complying with their requirements, so he is one very happy camper.

He is reading different Puritan writers such as Richard Sibbes. He looks out the window and can see Brasenose College, All Soul’s College and St Mary’s church. It is a hard life.

He managed to find the Campos of Oxford in his wanderings of the Laneways. It is called the Missing Bean. He managed to bump into some ex College students there who now work in Oxford. They were most impressed that he managed to stumble upon this coffee haven:

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He has a lovely walk to get to the Radcliffe. Across the Magdalen Bridge, and he then turns off the High Street to avoid the tourists and crowds along Queen’s Lane – it is narrow and windy and lined by high walls. You could be in another world completely as it passes through about five colleges – you get little glimpses into courtyard gardens, pass under two bridges for students to use to go from one side of the college to the other.

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The Magic Faraway Tree

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One of the hard things about excellent adventures and travelling is what you leave behind. In this case, I have left my three adult children  and I miss them. Our son Johnny is in Fiji on a short term mission trip. He left just before we did and we have not heard a huge amount from him – just two very long text messages, we know he is ok but we also know he is way out of his comfort zone.

We have also been concerned about our other son Michael who has not been well – a nasty virus which he has had for about six weeks and lost much weight. He is doing an honours thesis this year and has had two 6000 essays to hand in at the same time.

Being away has not been easy, as my natural instinct is to be there, to help them, love them, look after them, encourage them – in physical practical ways – but I can’t. I am on the other side of the world. But I can pray.

Just before we left I attended two conferences – yes, I am a conference junkie (not normally) where Sharon Morris-May spoke – she is Arch Hart’s daughter and a guru on marriage relationships. She gave an amazing talk on Psalm 91 which I have been thinking about since my arrival here in Oxford – our God is our safe place and where we can seek refuge at all times. It is a beautiful Psalm – one of my favourites – I like it all, but I love this image:

“He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.” v4

“Because they love me, says the Lord, I will rescue them; I will protect them, for they acknowledge my name. They will call on me, and I will answer them; I will be with them in trouble, I will deliver theme and honour them. With long life I will satisfy them and show them my salvation.” v14-16

Yes I am a slow learner. My God is not just my God. He is my children’s God. He is their loving Father, not their Grandfather. He is watching over them much better than I can. I am still learning about being a wise Mum and my children have all grown up!

At our last family dinner a couple of weeks ago, I asked Johnny what I could pray for. He looked at me and said “that I won’t be grumpy and get in bad moods”.  I was a little surprised, as he is not really a grumpy kind of guy. He looked at me. “Mum, I am going to be with 80 other people all day and I need some space. Why do you think that I am taking The Magic Faraway Tree away with me? This is one of my favourite kid’s books and I am planning on hiding away when it all gets too much and disappear into a world that is familiar and seems like home to me!” The words of my six foot tall, skinny, trendy inner city kid! He is an avid bookworm and often has his nose in a book – usually with a glass of milo and jar of pretzels.

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I love this book too! I have vivid memories of reading it myself and sharing it with my children. It is a great world to escape to! But there is a better safe place than the Magic Faraway Tree and I know that Johnny knows this too. Psalm 91 tells us where that safe place is.   I pray that each of us learns to take refuge in this safe place while we are away from each other.

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Matters of the heart

20120705-103228.jpg – from the top of a London Bus – the Elephant and Castle!   Can you see them?  This is directly opposite the Metropolitan Tabernacle – Spurgeon’s church.

Yesterday, I read in a book “the Psalms are a jewel, consisting of the gold of doctrine, the pearl of comfort and the gem of prayer.” Last week Keith and I attended a three day conference held at St Helen’s Bishopsgate for Pastors (and ring-ins such as me) and those who work full time in ministry. There were 800 attending and somehow, we all crammed into the building which has not been designed to seat this number.

One of the speakers Christopher Ash spoke from a different Psalm each morning and we tasted the rich truth of this saying  from his words. He was speaking to Pastors, but his words were equally relevant to any Christian in need of encouragement – all of us really.

Christopher Ash has written wisely about marriage and another book of meditations on Psalm 119 called Bible Delight which has had a profound impact upon me, so it was a sheer delight to listen to him speak on Psalm 55 – a prayer reminding us that God is unshakeable, Psalm 90 – a prayer for those feeling disillusioned and Psalm 145 – how to praise. God has blessed this man with an amazing gift of communicating the grace of God. He is honest, clear and succinct. Every word counts. I thought “I could listen to this man speak all day” which is a rare occurence – let me tell you.

The second main speaker Paul Tripp has also written wisely about marriage and two books of meditiations on Psalms – one on Psalm 27 and on Psalm 51 – again both books have had a huge impact on me and I look forward to his next one on Psalm 73. His talks were titled Dangerous Calling. God has also gifted this man – he gets the problem of sin in people’s lives and he also gets grace and communicates both powerfully.

I was struck by how both men saw the importance of our hearts and importance of the key relationships in our lives – with our husbands and wives and our children – these matter to God. Both men were saying “if you want a good marriage, work on your own relationship with the Lord, deal with your own stuff or sin before the Lord and if you want to have a ministry that is pleasing to the Lord, work on your marriage – how you behave with your spouse matters.

Both these men have had an incredibly impact upon me with their writings, so it was an amazing privilege to hear both of them speak and meet them in the flesh. I am thankful to God for the way He has used them to feed my soul and teach me much from the word of God.

Each day started at 10.30 and ended at 4.30 with four sessions. We also heard from David Cook and Michael Reeves – who shared about the Puritans – we met him one evening and he and Keith had a great conversation sharing their thoughts about the Puritans. Both their talks were excellent.

I had a nasty cold and felt decidedly below par for these three days, so I am thankful to God that I was able to take in what I did – I have much to think about and ponder. We both felt privileged to be able to attend and were fed and nourished by the word of God. The singing was amazing. I have never sung to an organ accompanied by a live band – but it worked. What I enjoyed most was the musicians never dominated. At times they stopped playing and all we could hear was our voices which were rich, passionate and melodic.

I was impressed by the team of people involved behind the scenes to make the conference happen. Morning and afternoon tea were organised and served with military precision and efficiency. Having just been to the Oasis conference at Collaroy the weekend before where most of us stood in a queue for the entire duration of the break, I was extremely impressed and grateful to their hard work and loving kindness – many of the helpers were women of mature years who simply served graciously.

One thing that both Keith and I enjoyed was meeting up with ex College students who are working somewhere other than Australia and there were quite a number. It was encouraging to hear their stories. However we were mostly completely unknown and anonymous – and for introverts this was a blessing.

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Each morning we travelled by bus – often sitting upstairs at the very front — a great place to watch the world go by. The best way of telling anyone how to find St Helen’s is to say “find the Gherkin” – it is a significant landmark that is right next door. We also discovered that the workers in this part of London walk fast. Keith walks fast, but they were overtaking him. It was easy to feel quite swamped by the pace of life flowing by.

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One highlight for me was meeting my friend Julie for lunch. She and her husband have just come to England to work at a church with their three little girls. Susannah used to mind them occasionally, and they were rather concerned about Susannah being left at home on her own. They said “But what about Susannah, who will look after her?” It was a relief to have a bit of female company, I must confess, and I enjoyed simply chatting. Men and women talk very differently.

We spent our evenings walking along the Thames – the skies were clear and balmy, it was warm and light until 10pm. Here is the Tower Bridge all ready for the Olympics:

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Streets of London

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A couple of months ago we went to hear Ralph McTell perform at the Balmain town hall. The audience were mostly our age and older as we all relived our youth and listened to him play his wonderful ballads. One of his most famous is Streets of London and I have remembered it while Keith and I have walked the streets of London this last week.

Last time we were in London, I mastered the Tube and travelled everywhere around London underground. I would pop up for air, explore a bit and then burrow down for the next destination. I had figured out how to get to our conference from Elephant and Castle by tube, but our wonderful hosts at our B & B told us to catch the bus.

We had three days of conference and three days to explore. Armed with bus numbers and our Oyster cards we set off for a day of exploration and leg stretching – we were feeling rather cooped up after sitting for hours on the plane. It is amazing what you see when you are on a bus and walking the streets of London.

Our first day in England was warm and sunny and we both got sun-burnt standing outside Buckingham Palace waiting for the changing of the guard. We then walked through all the parks we could see on our map – Hyde Park, Kensington Gardens and then across to Regent’s Park. The flowers were amazing and their smell transported me back to a summer in 1967 which I had spent in England with my mother and sister visiting relatives and family friends.

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After the conference, we had two days to explore the streets of London a little more. We became confident bus travellers – you see so much more above ground. I am glad I abandoned the mole’s way of doing London. We did do a lot of walking. My Mum has been to Prague recently and she told me that she had trodden on every single cobblestone and this is how I felt about the streets of London – we must have walked along all of them, but, we didn’t. London is enormous and we only skimmed a few.

We explored the British Museum, again, you could spend weeks here savouring the treasures the British have plundered from foreign shores. We stood in on a talk about how the Romans came to England and their impact on the religion of the country which was fascinating. After our brains and feet reached saturation point, we headed out to the streets and made our way to the Tate Modern that sits beside the river.

It had turned into a glorious afternoon, so we sat beside the Thames in the sun and I had a little snooze, while Keith watched the world go by. After a little time in the Tate when I decided that some modern art really does not do it for me – I fail to appreciate its meaning, we walked some more until we found a wonderful Turkish place in Southwark – a serendipitious find.

On Sunday, after a visit to St Helen’s Bishopsgate – which you will only find if you follow the giant gherkin, it is surrounded by towers and scaffolding and no signposts – you are just meant to know where it is, we did a wonderful historic walk from there to St Paul’s.

I will say more about our visit to St Helen’s in another post, as this is about the streets of London. This walk is in the heart of the financial business centre and on a Sunday it is deserted so we had the place to ourselves.

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We discovered numerous hidden churches and secret gardens. Many of the churches have been designed by Christopher Wren after the great fire in 1666, they have long tall spires which today are dominated by new towers. In fact you could miss them completely if you were not looking for them. We also found the site of the first coffee shop in London!

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The walk took us along the ruins of a wall built in Roman times to keep the city safe – it lay buried until the bombings during World War II.

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After passing the place where John Wesley was converted and started his amazing ministry, we visited the Museum of London which is well worth a visit. I had never heard of it, but it is filled with treasures that have been uncovered from a London of the past – including Roman London to the London of today. We listened to a wonderful talk about London at the time of Charles I, the only English King to have his head chopped off – very publicly, to the Restoration of the Monarchy, the Plague which killed half the population of the city and the great fire in 1666 – imagine living in London during these tumultuous twelve years! So much happened in a very short space of time.

We then found our way to Soho and a wonderful Indian restaurant – inexpensive and delicious and watched the night life of the gathering of Italians to watch a European football final. The police were out in force. The streets of London are mixed and varied – you certainly miss them on the underground.
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Elephant and Castle

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Names are evocative. We have just spent a week staying in Elephant and Castle in London – it is inner city, grimy, traffic gridlocked but very quirky. Opposite Elephant and Castle station stands the Metropolitan Tabernacle – the place where Spurgeon preached magnificently and had a marvellous ministry.

It took us thirty-five hours to travel from our home in Sydney to Elephant and Castle and included travel by car, plane, train, bus and foot. This included a seven hour stop-over in Abu Dharbi where we walked and walked to stretch our legs. Travelling economy is a bit like sitting in a shoe box and we both had swollen ankles and that grimy, travelly feel.

I cleverly picked up a nasty cold which was unpleasant. Living in a new city and attending a conference requires a certain robustness which I severely lacked, due to this cold. The local Boots and I quickly became acquainted as I bought tissues, more tissues and tablets and …

We stayed in a wonderful apartment up high with glorious views of the city landscape. We travelled from the shortest day to the longest day in the year and at 4am I watched the sun rise above London and at 10 pm watched it set again. I think I could sit and gaze at this view for hours – the old and new structures sit side by side.

A great place to start our excellent adventure! We were most curious about how this suburb acquired its name. We found out that when the Romans came to conquer England, they brought elephants. The nine local kings finally surrendered to the Roman army which was massive. Perhaps there was a castle where the elephants went to live?
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Caleb’s Crossing and other random thoughts

I resisted reading Caleb’s Crossing by Geraldine Brooks for nearly eighteen months.  It has sat at the bottom of a pile of books beside my bed and never quite reached the top.  I took it away with me somewhat reluctantly and only read it because I had read everything else in my pile.

Despite my misgivings, it is a beautifully written story about a Puritan family living on Martha’s Vineyard just off the coast from Boston in the mid 1600s.  The narrator is Bethia, who at the start is about fifteen and the daughter of the island’s preacher.  She is highly intelligent and is largely self educated, as education of girls is not encouraged by this community.  Bethia befriends an Indian boy who she names Caleb – first they speak in his language, which she has taught herself to speak, and then in English which she teaches him to speak and later to write.  It is a secret friendship that lasts a couple of years.

Bethia’s early life is beset with tragedy after tragedy – it makes me realise how easy my life is in comparison.  The character of Caleb is based on a true person – he was the first Indian to graduate from Harvard University – he left the island and studied there for four years.  Remnants remain in the library collection of his hand written latin work.

This book follows Caleb’s move to study on the mainland with Bethia working close by.  By this stage their friendship has changed.  During this time when they live in Cambridge Bethia discovers Anne Bradstreet a Puritan woman who has written poetry most of her life.  Her poetry is later published in England and in the States and is still available today.  Anne’s father and husband both become Governors, so she comes from a wealthy and influential family.

I was telling Keith about this Anne Bradstreet and he had just bought her collected poetry out of interest.  I have now had a look at The Works of Anne Bradstreet and she has written some moving poems – about her husband – who she clearly loves and her children.  Anne had a difficult and sad life – she faced major illnesses, struggled to fall pregnant, lost several grandchildren in early infancy and her daughter-in-law during childbirth.  There is an interesting poem she wrote on facing childbirth – it was a risky business and the prospect of dying was a reality – she talks about how she feels about her husband losing her and making a new life for himself – it is wistful and sad.  Her poetry reflects her Christian faith and convictions – she never loses sight of a future that will be much better in heaven.

Reading both these books have given me much to think about – Geraldine Brooks is quite anti-Christian, so I am wondering if her portrayal of the life of a young woman growing up in a puritan household is as anti-education as she suggests.  Interestingly,in 1637-38 there was a trial of Anne Hutchinson who was also a poet who was exiled for her heretical views.  This event is discussed in both these books.  John Winthrop wrote in 1645 about this woman and blames the fact that she spent so much time reading and writing – did this event have an impact on how other women were treated?  I am not sure, but it is certainly an interesting question.

I am glad I read both these – they have certainly whetted my appetite to know more about the Puritans, which is probably a good thing seeing that is what Keith is working on at present.  God does work in mysterious ways.

 

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Letters mingle souls

As part of Keith’s PhD research, he uncovered some letters written between Richard  Baxter, an English 17th Century Puritan minister and writer extraordinaire and Katherine Gell, a wealthy woman who was a committed Christian, wife and mother.  She lost an infant son aged seventeen weeks and then suffered a period of depression and wrestled with many deep questions.  They corresponded over a few years.  Some of the letters were thought to be lost forever, until Keith found them – it was an exciting find – but that is another story.

However, their  correspondence demonstrates the value of letters in documenting many aspects of life that are forgotten or overlooked.  In 1997, one of my very dear friends moved to Cambridge for a year with her husband and three small children.  Until then, we spoke most days by phone – sometimes for five minutes, or half an hour and we would share the minutae of our lives.  During 1997 we started writing letters to each other – long, handwritten letters containing many details of the life of two mothers with small children, trying to be loving wives, mothers and serious about their Christian faith.  It was a momentous year for both of us – she was living in a different country and everything was new.  I had different significant things happening in my life.  Rhonda kept my letters, bundled them into date order, wrapped a ribbon around them and gave them to me when she returned to Sydney.  I had kept her letters to me.  I put them all in a box and they have sat there until now, fifteen years later.

I have started reading them and am struck by the wealth of detail they contain that I had forgotten.  They capture the essence of our deep friendship, our Christian commitment and desire to serve the Lord faithfully.  They document the struggles we shared with our children, issues we faced with our husbands, books we were reading, people we spent time with, meals we had cooked, and our thoughts about many things.

It struck me that as a society, we have abandoned the art of letter writing.  It is quite different to sending an email – you can scribble something fast and hit send, or sending a text which is filled with abbreviations and pithy expressions – again, you can send it while doing something else.  To write a letter requires time and effort, plus a postage stamp and then you have to find a letter box!

As Keith discovered from his research, he gleaned much from the correspondence between Ricky and Katherine.  There is much about 1997 that was blank for me, but these letters capture many moments – happy, sad, frustrating and character building – yes those hard times shaped me for good.  They also cemented a deep friendship between two women prepared to share openly and honestly with each other.

Photo found on flickr by DY “You’ve got mail

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A time for cycling

It has been a number of years since I have been bike riding.  A few months ago, I thought about our five bikes sitting unused in our shed and decided its time….

We got them serviced, bought a bike rack for my mother’s car and we were set to take our  bikes up to the Central Coast.  My sister-in-law laughed when I told her our plans “I can’t imagine you on a bike Sarah”!

When our two older children hit adolescence it was very hard to do anything as a family and have five happy campers.  There was much angst and scritching and scratching.  One weekend we went to Canberra for a “happy family weekend”.  The weather was cold and  bleak and there was much moodiness, arguing and racing hormones.  We hired bikes to ride around the lake and it was like a magic button had been pressed.  There was laughter, joy and happiness for one blissful hour, I wanted to replay it, even though my fingers were blue and numb.

That was in 2001 and we came home and became a biking family.  We bought mountain bikes, helmets, bike racks for the back and top of the car to transport five bikes.  Since then our children have grown older and the appeal of cycling with parents has diminished and my health put the thought of bike riding on the back burner, until now.

Unfortunately, our helmets didn’t come with us to my Mum’s place but we abandoned caution and went riding anyway.  Bad mistake. I was cycling beside a wooden retaining wall, wobbled and my head collided with the wall, leaving me with a massively bruised head – I had trouble eating and opening my mouth for about ten days.  I wondered perhaps whether my sister-in-law was right after all.  No more cycling until we collect our helmets, which we did a few days later.

Since then, we have cycled often – every time the weather permits, the weather has been dreadful, so the cycleways are muddy and puddly and messy but it is fun.  We come home filthy and wet but the views of water have been splendid.  The Central Coast has some fantastic cycle ways that follow the water – Brisbane Water and Lake Tuggerah – the soft wintry light is beautiful.


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